relationships

Divorce

By the time she was 30 years old, “Roberta” was the mother of a beautiful baby boy she was crazy about—but about her husband “Harry,” the baby’s father, not so much; Roberta had more than enough of Harry. They fought all the time, and Harry was about done with Roberta, too. Their fights started getting physical; once, Harry threw a wooden salad bowl at Roberta, striking her in the chest, but this was an isolated case. Neither of their families provided help of any kind.

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STUCK

http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/stuck-changing-unhealthy-behavior-0411134

As in the case of Don Draper from TV’s “Mad Men,” getting stuck in unhealthy patterns of behavior can make it very difficult to see clearly and find your way out. Therapy can help.

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Defining Moments For Therapists

 

If therapy is a relational process, it takes a person on the therapist’s end. The goal of the project is to capture the therapist’s evolving sense of self as it is shaped by our experiences as active participants in a creative interaction.

The essays in this book are first-person accounts, by eleven therapists, of some “Aha!” moments when they got to understand themselves better, and to understand better why they do what they do.

Publication date: April 18, 2013

 

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The Lonely Perfect Ones

Narcissism: Inside the Lonely, Envious World of the ‘Perfect Ones’ Narcissistic people prey on those lacking self-confidence, their perfect companions. But beneath the surface of narcissism lies shame, envy, anger, and loneliness.”

I Don’t Forget to Wear My Red Dress; He Always Brings Me Flowers

Thirty-three Valentine’s Days and 32 anniversaries later, my marriage continues to blossom. No, it hasn’t been all roses, but he kept the flowers coming every Friday anyway.

 

I Don’t Forget to Wear My Red Dress; He Always Brings Me Flowers

Therapists Troubled by Suicide Epidemic among Military

Suicide Epidemic among Military

Meet the therapist at Good Therapy

Meet the therapist

Good therapy interviews Lynn Somerstein.

 

Janine Shepherd: A broken body isn’t a broken person | Video on TED.com

Janine Shepherd: A broken body isn’t a broken person | Video on TED.com. See this amazing, moving and sometimes funny video of an indomitable woman of spirit, whose Olympic dreams were ruined by a truck.

Left Out Like Rudolph: Factioned Families and the Holidays

Left Out Like Rudolph: Factioned Families and the Holidays

by LynnSomerstein

Lynn Somerstein, PhD, RYT – When families become factioned, be it the result of divorce or other turmoil, children are often caught in the middle. At no time of year is that more apparent than the holiday season.

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